Hearing aids for the first time - I'm worried!

I work in a private hearing aid shop and you should not have been prescribed aids if you have wax in your ears. Our audiologists always go back to someone once the wax has been removed to do a hearing test. Also Liljan if your aids are whistling you may have a bit of wax in your ear or aid which is causing the sound to "bounce off" the aid causing the whistling. Also, we find our clients are getting younger 50 onwards think this us due to all the loud music we used to and still do listen to. Hope this helps.

Please have a care when your ears are being cleaned.... I have only just been signed off from the ENT dept at the hospital after suffering a major ear infection since November after my ear canal was grazed when being syringed .... Would try to insist on suction or nothing another time...

I have no personal experience of them (but driven to distraction by mother in law who refuses to use hers and then gets antsy with us when she can't hear us!) but a friend who works in the area said that when you get them, you have to wear them all the time, even if you are just pottering around at home on your own.

That way, your brain gets used to hearing what everyday life is like, and can get used to the sounds is it processing, rather than everything being quiet or muffled, and then having to suddenly process a barrage of new noise, when they are worn

I got NHS ones, behind the ear. I was turning the tv louder and having trouble in noisy places and group chats, pub, restaurant etc. Mine fight with my glasses and any hood or hat and fall out and jump away easily. Grandchildren have helped find them and once I lost one and then you pay £50 for a new one. Then, months later, I found it . They do help but not to tell which direction the bird is singing from, necessarily. But it is nice to hear more birds.

Wow! I had no idea how much I'd learn from GN - I will now certainly get the wax removed from my ears by suction, and ask to be re-tested. And I am now more ready for what I'll have to get used to, when I do have the hearing aids, as well as the great benefits. I will have NHS hearing aids and think I am very lucky to be able to have them - without payment. I find I am not worried about hearing aids showing - at my age, it is not a worry, but maybe I would have minded when I was younger.

My daughter told me my telly was always loud, so when I had my eye test I also had my ears tested. I have intermittent tinnitus, and on that particular day, it was so loud I couldn’t hear when the test beeps started !! I haven’t done anything about it as yet but will if it starts to become a nuisance.

I should have added that if you have NHS hearing aids you qualify for a disabled persons railcard but private aids don't qualify. Also people travelling with you qualify. If, however, you are over 60 then this maybe irrelevant as you can have a senior citizens railcard which is the same discount though not sure about accompanying person.

I was 42 when I was told I needed hearing aids. At first a toilet flush sounded like Niagra Falls! However, do persevere. As others have said they are worth their weight in gold. Even now, some 20 years later, I sometimes don't wear them when I am driving as I can't stand the road noise - some roads better than others. It wasn't until I got my hearing aids that I discovered the noise of the CD changer in the car each time a new disc came on
My husband only uses his intermittently and often complains about background noise but the more you use them the more it fades. If there is a whistling noise it sometimes means that you have the wrong fitting on the end of the aid so do go back to the clinic and ask them to try a different size.

Hold on though - if they're saying you need your ears syringed, then how can they know you'll still have hearing loss after syringing? Sounds like someone trying to sell you something you may not need - I say don't commit to buying till after the syringing. Sounds a bit irresponsible that they gave you the test beforehand.

Or if you still need them if there is a difference in your test result post wax removal at least they will be on the correct setting.
You don’t have to pay fir microsuction
it’s done at the hospital here, but not always easy getting an appointment.
Which reminds me, I need to get one myself. Good luck.

Definitely go for a re-test applegran. Hearing tests done whilst your ears are full of wax are not a good idea and to be honest I would question the competency of the person who did it. It may turn out that you still need the hearing aids, but maybe not. Would you be able to go to a different place?

I am very surprised that testing was done and aids supplied without getting the wax out of your ears first.

My DGC love my hearing aids and ask to try them - they think they are wonderful!

This must be difficult but look at it rationally. If you get good hearing aids you will not miss conversations and not irritate people when you cannot hear what they say.

I find it odd that most people will fairly happily wear glasses but there seems to be a bigger dislike of wearing hearing aids. I think advertisments are partly responsible for this.
The magazine and TV ads always seem to imply hearing aids are shameful we must keep it a secret.

I am so grateful for so many Gransnetters' information, support and advice. My DGD, on hearing that I needed hearing aids said "Is it good news or bad news?" which I thought was a great question! I have decided it is good news - I will be able to hear so much better. I am interested in the comments about wax in my ears - and I think it must be possible that it affected my hearing test. The one with most wax came out as the one with most hearing loss. I am also interested in the idea of having the wax removed by suction - I think you have to pay for this, but much nicer and better for the ears than olive oil and syringing. So I think I will go for this and ask at the same time if I should be tested again, without wax. Thank you!

OP - cease to worry! it is wholly unwarranted. Rejoice in this wonderful technology.

My DH would tell you that since having his fitted by the NHS they are "The best thing since sliced bread!!"
They have totally transformed his life.

He really would not take it that it was his hearing that was at fault,so it was quite a while before he was persuaded to go and have the test.
At that time,always hale and hearty, I wondered how ever he would take to these H/aids.................and yet from almost day one he chooses to pop his in the very first thing after stepping out of bed each morning, then discarding same once he is actually in bed every evening.
It has not only transformed his life...........but mine!
No more talking loudly or having the T.V blaring, whilst he happily answers and speaks on the `phone..........something he by passed for a while before getting fitted up.

They are completely hidden and I can honestly say I would never know he wore them just by looking at him.

He has had the odd little difficulty but nothing that was not quickly fixed so on his behalf I can cheerfully say.............do not delay,make life worth living again and the one thing to add about these NHS aids.............they have got it right!!!

Applegran please do not hesitate or fret..........you too will be singing their praises and I bet you will say you wished you had taken the test etc earlier............there really is nothing to fear.

Good Luck.

I fit is whistling constantly then it is faulty. Mine only do that if for some reason I have a hand over my ear.

No hearing aid is perfect - occasionally I switch mine off, for instance at choir when the paper rustling of 100 + people gets a bit much!

But they are such a boon; and this nonsense about being embarrassed about wearing them is just that - nonsense.

My husband has just began to use a hearing aid in the last week (NHS). It has made a difference but it whistles which not only can he hear but I and everyone else can hear too. He was told that if his hands are near his head or if it's not in correctly it will whistle, but it's pretty constant. Any suggestions??

I have had mine for a year. I have a phone app, which can Switch them on an off. On the positive side, they mean I can now hear the tv, the grandchildren and don’t miss out on conversations when I am in a group.

I suggest that you don’t wear them Immediately but get used to them slowly at home. I have to tell my DH when I have them in as he is used to speaking to me in a loud voice. It sounds like he is shouting at me. Try them on the lower sound setting to begin with as some sounds become very unpleasant. If I have them high to listen to tv and then my DH goes into the kitchen, it sounds like he is crashing and banging about. Thing like people eating crisps, our dogs paws on the wooden floor are all amplified.

I know a lot of people give up on them because of the amplification of background noise. I am selective when I wear mine rather than wearing them all the time. Gradually I am wearing them more and more and I am so glad I got them.

I am not very techie but being able to switch them on and off , and adjust the sound level with my mobile phone is very easy and means I wear them more. I got mine from Specsavers and they were very helpful in showing me how to use them.

No one need be embarrassed by using hearing aids, we don’t worry about wearing glasses do we?
Definitely microsuction if offered is better for the ears than syringing and I too am surprised they tested you with blocked ears which may have affected the result.

To confirm what others have said, I think they are wonderful. Quite a lot of friends and relations speak too quietly and they make conversations so much easier. I hate having to keep asking people to repeat things. I don't wear them at home unless there are visitors with low voices (DH and I just shout at each other!). You do need to keep ears free of wax and I have learn't to change little wax guards on the device. My hair covers my ears and so people only know if told.

It took a few days to get used to mine. I wore them for a couple of hours at first. Now I rarely think about them. My hair is short but I don't find people staring at me in the street or anything!

I have a private bought hearing aid, but to be honest they don’t look much different from the NHS ones.

It took me a couple of days to get used to them then all was fine, wouldn’t be without them.

If they offer you ones with a little extra wire on them to secure them safely in you ear do accept them. I don’t worry about losing them now.

Just put them in and leave them in - you'll get used to them really quickly then. But if your ears are waxy the test won't have been accurate anyway. The NHS wouldn't test my hearing until I'd dealt with the wax. Having your ears suctioned seemed to me to be much more effective than syringing.

I have worn hearing aids for almost 15 years. I couldn't manage without them, they are a godsend!

Whoever invented them deserves and medal, and all free on NHS!