I have a 9 month old baby. I was a working mom until he turned 8 months. My MIL watched him one day a week all day. I stopped working because I want to be there when he starts talking and walking. My MIL wants us to continue the arrangement of one full day a week and I said no. She wants us to drop off my son at her house for full days or us to take him to her. I am still breastfeeding so I don’t want to pump to arrange for that full day she wants with him and I don’t want to miss if he walks and talks randomly. My MIL and family are welcome to come visit him at our house any day but they don’t want that option. They want to take him, I feel bad that it’s been 2 weeks they have skipped on seeing him because they don’t want to visit him at my house but they want to take him only. I need advise how to deal with my MIL and not cause a bigger conflict I know they think I’m ungrateful because they’ve watched him before but I was working then. Also now I’m bonding with my family on the weekends and my MIL wants to take the baby all Saturday sometimes I said they can just visit instead. I want my son with me I use to work 16 Hrs before I don’t want to pump anymore. Am I being selfish.
Feeling uneasy with tradespeople in the house.