I will call him "John" a friend I have known for thirty years. He has no living family. When he retired he moved back to his deceased parents home which is two hours away by train. We kept in touch by telephone and weekends in each others homes about twice a year. Latterly we met halfway for lunch but with both of us getting older it was telephone contact only. Last summer it was obvious he was becoming forgetful and he said that he had someone visiting to help with paperwork. bills etc. Then both phones landline and mobile were out of action and there was no Christmas card this year. I am quite concerned and have tried various ways to find out what has happened-- he may be in a care home.I have tried GP receptionist -can't help as not NOK and confidentiality. AgeConcernUK, Social Services, local carers,parish council, police neighbourhood watch also say not known or data protection. This is so sad as I don't know if he is alive or dead. What can I do?
Good Morning Friday 19th April 2024