I'm sure many of you will have experienced this so I welcome.e any advice.
My DH had been retired gor about 2years now. I think he's depressed. He spends a lot of time in his armchair reading or watching TV.
I try and spend time with him going out etc but it's difficult . I love it though
I am a member of a local gym and go about twice a week. I really enjoy it but am on the verge of cancelling. I feel so guilty going and this spoils the enjoyment.
I also collect my DGD from school once a week and love our special time together. Today DH suggested we go away tomorrow. I said great, I'll need to cancel hair appointment and gum classes but no problem.
He's been sulking since saying its OK.
I want to help him , he won't let me. It's so difficult
On the one hand I enjoy being busy and think it's healthy to have some time apart. I being with him too. I feel stuck in the middle.
Thanks for reading
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