I think about you sometimes, Msida and have wondered how you are getting on. It must seem like the slowest and most painful journey to you when you are trying so hard to just feel a little happiness and to feel 'normal' again with a new life to look forward to. Please don't give in - you'll carry on having bad days but you'll gradually see that something will suddenly make you smile or give you pleasure - and you'll see perhaps that life can improve and you will start to feel settled.
Have you given any thought to getting a cat or a small dog for company? A dog that probably would respond so much to the love and attention and time that you would be able to give to it, and you could find that the company and the distraction would help you to feel less alone and with some purpose again.
Do re-read the responses that you had when you posted in July, I think there is a lot of kindness and understanding there, which may help you again at this time. People do care a great deal and, of course, some have suffered terrible sadness like you and are very easily able to understand how you feel. Feeling less like you have been singled out for this unhappiness, and understanding that as time passes life will change for you, may offer you some hope - just as long as you don't give up trying to change things for yourself. Be kind to yourself and try not to rush things or to blame yourself for your present situation or any decisions you have made. You can make your new home absolutely lovely and a place of refuge and comfort and happiness - it will just take time and patience.
Good luck to you, take care of yourself and try to look forward.
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