Oh the problems of mum and dad! Won't go into whole story but two years ago we had to persuade dad 88, to let mum, same age, go into hospital as she seemed to be starving herself to death and dad was becoming so exhausted he looked on the verge of collapse and it wasn't fair on either of them. They were so stubborn about sorting it out themselves, very proud and always independent.
Mum is now in an EMI unit...elderly mentally infirm unit for those who don't know. I have moved in with dad. He has finally come to realise that she is better off where she is and he is starting to enjoy life somewhat again, going to the pub with my brother etc. also I now cook proper meals and he is starting to take interest in food again after existing mainly on ready meals while trying to interest mum in something other than a boiled egg or boiled chicken. She had become obsessed about her high cholesterol and would not eat any fat.
Lots of other things too. She now has regular B12 injections and some medication to help depression. She has become a different person, social, bright and friendly which she definitely was not for years. On a good day you would swear she could come home but other days she is away with the fairies but as she says...well I can't remember yesterday, so it doesn't matter!
The family are sad that after 67 years together they are apart but we think it is better that they can now both enjoy life to some degree apart than the state they were in and both possibly gone by now from the sheer stress of trying so hard to stay together. Dad visits mum about three times a week and they still love each other.
What were the first ever records that you bought and when?
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?