JessM - yes, I have got a counsellor and we have had several sessions - during most of which I have been talking and offloading. However, I do know that I need to stop obsessing about them - where they went, what they did and I hope that soon she can help me with that .
What is past is past, of course but it is My past too and I feel that, though I brought up four lovely children,a greater part of my life was wasted in staying with a man who clearly did not respect or care for me.
Should women have equal pay and opportunities?
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic