There were four of us, my mother would only use older teenagers, maybe because she thought we would gang up on anyone younger. When I had my own children I automatically did the same as I reasoned that they would need the money to go out with, so paid them well so ensure that they would do as good a job as possible. Once I left my eight-year-old ready for bed but crying that she did not want me to go out, even though she was with her normal 18 yr-old sitter. Apparently she could not be appeased, so the babysitter rang her boyfriend who came round to help to entertain her. He said he was hungry and fancied a chinese - all three of them went off in his car to buy a takeaway. When they got there, he said that they might as well eat in the restaurant. So my daughter ate in a very smart chinese in her pyjamas, bunny slippers and thick fleece dressing-gown, 20 years ago when pyjama-wearing was most definitely not a fashion. I didn't know whether to be mortified at that or furious that if I had phoned to check that she was ok, no-one would have been in and I would have rushed home.
I was glad for the 14-yr-old USA sitter explanation, I thought it was too young. A friend of mine booked us one when we were staying at the very posh Fairmont in Chicago a year later, and I was very apprehensive. I ordered them room service, but they got a bit rowdy and broke a serving dish. They collected up the pieces and put them outside the room and locked themselves out... Several hours later we returned to see a couple of scruffy young girls riding the internal escalators and running off to the shops before we could get their attention. We caught them in an expensive jewellery concession where the saleslady informed us sourly that they had tried on most of the expensive clothes in the boutique and loudly discussed practically every item of merchandise the hotel had to offer. I was appalled but my american friend laughed it off. I wanted to apologise to all the traumatised-looking sales staff but she said that was what they were paid for!
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Frank Field, Labour Peer has died, aged 81y.