Hi June, great blog. Re the question "Do you ever think how different your life might have been if you had taken another direction?" I've been pondering about that quite a bit lately re the person we are because of who we are with, because - in recent years we reconnected with a couple we knew when we were in our 20s - so forty years on. Sadly, the wife died about 2 years ago very quickly after being diagnosed with lung cancer (when we had only just started socialising with them again). When I phoned to offer my sympathies, I said "You'll have memories of a wonderful wife and mother". He was silent for a moment and then replied "She certainly was a wonderful mother". I left it at that but it sort of stayed with me.
We invited him for a meal not long after his wife died, thinking he would like the company, when he called and asked could he bring a lady friend? Long story short - he has hooked up with a widow, a neighbour, and they could not keep their hands or eyes off each other during the visit. Since then, it is apparent that they are very much in love and I have never seen him happier, I've known him since he was in his 20s. Having married so young - he was 23 - I've been wondering about the rather taciturn person he was before.