Just wondered what Gransnetters think - yesterday I was doing my volunteering in the Christmas charity card shop. A lady came in and asked if we had cards with robins on, as she wanted to send Christmas cards that were non religious because she didn't want to offend anyone. I was quite shocked to think a religious card would cause offence. Am I alone in being surprised by this?
Oh, for goodness sake! I worked for years in a school where the vast majority of children were Muslims. Only a handful of families ever withdrew their children from Christmas activities, including carol singing in town, and most of those were Jehovah's Witnesses. We had wonderful nativity plays with a cast that was over three quarters Muslim. We had an Asian Santa at our Christmas Fair, a Christmas post and decorations, much of it led by our Pakistani colleagues. The children put up their stockings on Christmas Eve and many had Christmas trees at home. We also all celebrated Eid, Diwali, and Hannukah. Why on earth should anyone find any of this offensive, apart from those who've had a very narrow life, and spend their time miserably scratching around for offence on behalf of themselves or others?
I send cards that I like- some are religious and some are not. I like to buy charity cards and if they say 'SeasonsGreetings' I add 'for a Happy Christmas and best wishes for the New Year'. The only ones that I buy for especially with season's greetings and a suitable picture are for our Jewish friends.
So far I have 2 with robins, 1 with penguins, 1 with a koala (guess where that comes from!), 2 with dogs, 3 nativity ones, one with a church, 1 with an angel, 7 with outdoor house and tree scenes, and one partridge in a pear tree, 2 with wreathes. I can't see why I would be offended by any of them. I like the homemade one best, but don't expect people to have time- I never get around to it.
Anya, I love it , thank you , I am a little cross because I have a thing about putting quotes into cross stitch samplers , you have just added one to my collection of 'to stitch! and I am running out if wall space , this is a must do and explains much too
My favourite card; sent them to people years ago but had one left which I kept. Saw the painting in the Musee d'Orsay and was overwhelmed by how beautiful it was [I hadn't realised it was there].
Surely it isn't a surprise to anyone that some people want to buy Christmas cards that don't have religious scenes on them? I don't know about being 'offended' but I just think it would be a bit insensitive to send a religious card to my Jewish or Sikh friends (or to anyone who I happen to know is atheist). I'm not religious myself, but it's part of our culture to remember friends and send cards at this time of year. There are lots of lovely cards that say 'Season's Greetings' or similar.