On dying, my father asked me to look after his wife when he had gone. He married Mildred after leaving my mother for her - my mother died a lonely bitter woman because of this separation. Mildred has no children or near relations of her own.
I have no bonding with Mildred, I only met her when my mother died. She is very selfish old woman, and I feel so guilty with the feelings of impatience, dislike and resentment that I experience; even worse when I think of my own poor mother, as I had a young family when she died and I did not have the time to care for her that I do now. Anyone got any advice on how I can cope with these feelings?
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