Hi everyone!
I'm not sure if I should feel the way I do so wanted to ask for some advice.
I'm about to 30 and for past 20 years I've been sole carer for both my grandparents.
I'm not sure how it happened but I'm stuck with this responsibility. I was raped and beaten up when I was 19 and have struggled ever since. I've been out of work since them and have something become a full time carer for my grandparents.
I do everything for them and always try my best bust its getting too much. I know its been a long time since it happened to me but I haven't had any time to process.
Now my grandparents are getting older they sometimes scream in my face when they don't like what I'm doing.
I don't know how long I take but I feel bad not helping.
Any advice??
Thanks
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