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Carol Mon 05-Mar-12 10:54:12

I've spent the last few days pondering over birthday presents for my grandson who will be twelve tomorrow. I left it late because I only saw him for the first time in weeks yesterday, although I had asked several times by text. Even he can't think of what he would really like. He's got lots of things that he needs, so this time, rather than buying him a bike or motorised lego, or all the other things I've suggested and he doesn't want or need, I'm going out shortly to get him a selection of books and small surprise treats and put them all in a big box. He's not yet reached the age when his world will expand and he will want to try lots of new hobbies and adventures. Speaking to my family, they have all said the same - internet suggestions for 'gifts for a 12 year old boy' are useless, and everyone has struggled this year. Do you find you are stumped for great ideas for relatives and friends of any age, too? If you jave received or given a really great gift, it would be good to hear what it was, please.

Carol Thu 08-Mar-12 16:48:24

I saw those the other day, and they looked lovely - great for a present. I was given an olive tree in a container when I retired 2 years ago and it's done really well in my back garden, which has a couple of protective walls. No sign of any olives yet, though.

Maniac Thu 08-Mar-12 16:38:52

A pair of rosemary 'trees' or olive trees (M&S) make a change from flowers and last longer.
Rosemary also attracts the bees -see 'Flowers for Pollinators' thread.

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 08-Mar-12 15:42:01

Don't forget you can find more gift ideas in our reviews section www.gransnet.com/reviews - and do keep adding any other things you think fellow gransnetters should (or shouldn't) buy

JessM Thu 08-Mar-12 15:31:05

confirmation gift in bag. Book of CP unobtainable in Mk. Even in the church shop.
Nice pretty photo frame from Paperchase, a little book of prayers (not too cheesy) and a tiny angel brooch.

Carol Wed 07-Mar-12 16:30:38

Yes specki4eyes presents in general. A bit of inspiration is needed every now and again. otherwise it's flowers, chocolates, money in the card and other presents that are nice now and again, but not every time.

Maniac Wed 07-Mar-12 15:57:12

When my grandson was still visiting he often made a beeline for my Sharp's electronic dictionary/puzzle solver so I bought him one for his 11th birthday.He was delighted!
Sadly when I helped my DS clear up DGS's room in his house in Oct it was lying on the floor beside DGS's bed.I like to think it was maybe the last thing he played with on his last visit before the rift.I'll keep it safe for his return.

specki4eyes Tue 06-Mar-12 22:51:01

ooh dear sorry - I thought we were on the subject of presents in general. I told you I was going potty. Come to think of it though, that youngster is going to be absolutely knackered after being confirmed - so the hammock suggestion could work grin

JessM Tue 06-Mar-12 07:50:38

oh i saw one in a shop. he will indeed love.

Carol Tue 06-Mar-12 07:32:40

I trecked around the Trafford Centre yesterday, looking for inspiration for my 12 year old grandson's birthday today, and found one great present in the Model Shop - must go back there, there's lots of interesting things. He's got an iPod Touch and they had an AppCopter, which is a small helicopter that can be flown by using the iPod as the remote control (there's software to download). The shop assistant asvised caution - the person demonstrating it to shoppers a few weeks ago got it to take flight and it went straight over the balcony and landed in someone's coffee in the cafe below! My grandson will love that! I can envisage him manoevring it over the dining table - typical schoolboy!

JessM Tue 06-Mar-12 07:16:07

What does an atheist godmother give at an anglican confirmation...
Visions of me sneaking into a religious bookshop wearing a muslim headscarf as disguise.

Anne58 Mon 05-Mar-12 23:09:13

Yes, a hammock is lovely, delightful etc, but as to how it might be a gift linked to a confirmation service.....................?

specki4eyes Mon 05-Mar-12 22:58:15

A hammock! Get a nice soft fabric one i.e. not one like a string bag. Your giftee will bless you every summer afternoon. There's a good website - google 'hammock' and you'll find it.

Anne58 Mon 05-Mar-12 19:04:09

jeni my turn to use the shock thingy!

jeni Mon 05-Mar-12 18:50:09

A nice engraved 1pint tankard with the date on it!

grannyactivist Mon 05-Mar-12 18:43:41

JessM as she's being given pearls and a cross etc. what about something like this to jewellery tree to hang them on?

Anne58 Mon 05-Mar-12 18:34:42

grin

Annobel Mon 05-Mar-12 18:31:37

It would not become me to repeat Phoenix's pun. I must have a twisted mind.

Anne58 Mon 05-Mar-12 18:04:09

Jacey I think you will have to ask Annobel, I really have no idea.............

Jacey Mon 05-Mar-12 18:00:27

Phoenix why would it be unseemly? hmm

Annobel Mon 05-Mar-12 17:52:33

You know what .... Don't play the innocent with us ...wink

Anne58 Mon 05-Mar-12 17:50:38

What?

Annobel Mon 05-Mar-12 17:47:07

phoenix shock grin

Anne58 Mon 05-Mar-12 17:40:12

I could make unseemly remarks about having been bestowed with a Bishopric but I wont.

JessM Mon 05-Mar-12 17:36:00

Good idea. I will check with her mum
She goes to a cathedral school so that is where the do is next weekend - in the cathedral with a reception afterwards! Do you think we will have sherry with the bishop. SO Barchester towers. Opportunity to flirt with a bishop...

Anne58 Mon 05-Mar-12 17:32:34

I would think that she would indeed have a bible, but what about a nicely bound copy of the book of common prayer?