First Xmas since OH went into NH. Lovely moments with DDs and families; and moments of struggle when visiting OH and dealing with his paranoia. Two very different days from the Christmases I have been used to - but thank goodness for family.
Did not quite know how to divide up the time - felt I should be with OH, but he was asleep a lot of the time. NH was holding a party when I arrived and he had been got up and dressed to join in (he does not usually leave his room - his choice) but in the middle of it he told me they were all celebrating that fact that they were planning to kill him - so that put a damper on things a bit. What a sorry state to be in.
How did others with partners in homes divide up their time I wonder.
Being quizzed by chemist's assistant in Boots.