Situation: I work part time and see a colleague (unmarried man) during only 3 hours. I am a widow.
This man keeps finding me to have a quick chat several times - I can't get my work done - and as I only see him during the three hours he has said that he misses me. He says he will take me to a concert at the end of October but there is no offer of a date in the meantime. It has become noticeable to other colleagues that he keeps coming to see me during the 3 hours. He has somehow found out all about me which is a bit creepy. I have to keep reminding him that we are supposed to be working. He shows interest but hasn't officially asked me out. Recently most of the employees went to a local pub after an evening event and this man was disappointed that I wasn't going. I had to go somewhere else.If I avoid him he asks why I am hurting him!
I am not clued up on romance so I am confused as to what is going on. Is this man just a friendly person, worryingly creepy or is he shy? Is he attracted to me or not? I'm hoping that some gransnetters have come across such a situation before and can enlighten me as to what is going on. I'm so confused.
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