A few weeks ago, I posted that the issues affecting DS (divorce, depression, jobless,) in addition to DH being quite ill, were making it difficult for me to be happy. In addition, my ex DIL, who has no parents, had been confiding in me that she wasn’t happy with the amount of time that DS was sharing child care. For months and months she and I have been in constant communication about various things, usually via texting, and we even had a “girls’ getaway” together back in Nov. She and DGS live in the house, a mile away, that DH and I helped them purchase prior to the split and DS lives with us. DGS is here various times, a few days per week, while DIL is working from home. Right after the New Year she told me she wanted a more predictable schedule both in terms of DGS sleeping over one night each week and to know in advance when DS would be coming to the house in which she resides rather than “random” visiting. I agreed this would help all of us and we’ve started that routine. Since that time, there’s been “radio silence” from her. No more texts at 10 pm about random topics, friendly chats, etc. It’s as if she’s decided to put more distance between us. I should be glad? But the abrupt shift is disconcerting. Would you comment about it to her?
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