My Mum never took to my Mother in Law, I don't know why as she was a lovely Lady. The first I knew of it was not long after Mr J and I married, we invited both sets of Parents to our home for a meal. My Mother responded to the invitation by saying "I am not coming if She is going to be there" which completely stunned me. When asked why all my Mum would say was She is not my cup of tea. My response was well they are part of my life now because I am married to their Son and you are part of Mr J's life as He is married to your Daughter. I said fine if you don't want to socialise with them that is your choice.
There was no issue for myself and Mr J as we never had children so there was not a problem with grandparenting, children's parties etc. Neither set of Parents ever saw each other again after our wedding. It was a pity because my Parents adored my Husband and his Parents adored me. Have you or do you know anyone that experienced something similar? It always seemed rather unusual to me but did not affect our marriage. I would be interested to hear your views. Thank you.
Lack of public toilets in towns.