Sago Wed 22-Mar-23 09:30:33
We were friends with a couple for many years, our husbands met as teenagers and the four of us had some wonderful times together until there was a divorce.
We tried to remain neutral but unfortunately the wife told us dreadful things about her ex husband.
My husband felt that morally we couldn’t continue seeing him.
It has been nearly 20 years.
It seems the stories the ex told were all lies, she is a narcissist and the poor bloke has been treated like a pariah as she was so convincing.
I feel sad that we have lost all that time but excited to be seeing him and his new wife.
It made me think this morning how much wiser I am now than 20 years ago and how differently I would have dealt with now.