Friend 40+ years,120 miles away,we have taken in turns to visit each other.
I no longer have a car,and now have mobilty issues, but have until recently visited using three buses and a longish train journey, taking around 5 hours in total to do a journey that takes around a two hour drive.
My friend has a busy social life and often goes on holiday,and stop overs with her airline crew son,she also goes on conventions and interest weekends with groups she belongs to,her husband does not go and he us not happy so I am told that she does this frequently.
My friend uses the excuse her husband will not be happy for her to spend time visiting me as she is away doing her own thing a lot.
This is what is upsetting me,she will happily drive/ fly wherever,but is resisisting visiting me,so that it makes life less complicated for her with the husband moaning about her being/ going away and it enables her to continue her lifestyle.
I have a planned visit shortly,but will have to cancel due to mobility this time,she has a weekend away and is trying to "fit" me in as this is in an area about 50 miles away but a bit if a detour.
I can see the friendship will soon come to an end,because I am expected to do all the travelling,I feel confused and hurt,that she wont put herself out
Anyone else fed up with North Easterly wind flow?
Removal firm didn't move all our stuff