Hello Jaybett
Yes, there are people who are born distant and stay that way. They 'take against' others for no reason other than what's in their own minds.
This, it seems, is what has happened to your daughter.
I don't think it is anything at all to do with the divorce because it began long before that.
This has always been a problem to parents everywhere - even Shakespear wrote about it in King Lear.
"How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is to have a thankless child."
So you are not alone if that's any consolation.
Recommendations please, for a stopover on the way to Loch Tay