Yes ungranned so many of us have used the same phrase, 'a living bereavement'.
Its just psycho babble bullying to talk of 'coming out the other side' of this complicated and heart rending problem.
How dare someone insist I feel as they say I must!
I came out the other side of my cancer episode.
I came out the other side when I broke my arm, or lost my job, or coped with my husbands illness or unemployment, or the benefits system.
I came out the other side of countless difficulties.
But, I did not come out the other side when my beloved parent died.
Nor when my dearly beloved Gran died over 50 years ago, and I don't expect to come out the other side of this episode of estrangement, how ever long it lasts.
I do what we all do live with it.
Hope you're feeling ok Ungranned?
Sallywally1 …. if your around it would be nice to hear from you.
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