Wow. Some news at last. Eldest d has spoken to her Dad, we are both remarried. Youngest D wasn't speaking to him either until yesterday as he supported my actions. Still a lot we don't know but what d did tell him is:
Social services are still investigating.
When paternal GPS turned up to collect the children from school on Thursday, Headteacher wouldn't let the children go with them at behest of social worker, who wanted to see their mother first.
Further meetings arranged with social worker
Boy triplet and IJ, one of the girl triplets not sleeping ? but IJ going into mummy's bed. That's never happened before but she loved to do that with me, so glad she's getting that nurturing
Ex h told d that she could not keep the children from seeing me, for their sake as I had provided so much care for them all their lives. D agreed but too angry at the moment.
So still far to go but something of a relief. Watch this space ??