I posted on this site a few months ago about a situation which had led to my DH and me being ‘estranged’ from our DS, DiL and grandchildren. The situation got better before Xmas when both me and my DH apologised for the issues which had caused the situation. I still truly believe I was innocent of what I was being accused of but that’s another story.
They live on the opposite side of the world so our only means of communication has been FB or Messenger. It’s been tense, but we were all seemingly willing to work at mending our bridges.
However, DiL suddenly stopped replying to my messages and I have since realised that she has stopped me from seeing any pictures of our DGC on FB. Other family members see these but I don’t. I don’t think my DS is aware of the situation either but he would take her side even if he was.
I am finding this heartbreaking to deal with and I need to let our DGC know that we still think of them and love them dearly. I have thought about writing them a letter. I’m not sure she will give this to them but I need to try. My question to you all is what would you put in this letter? I don’t know how to say what I am feeling without upsetting them or making them think that we won’t ever have them in our lives again because I hope we will but for now, it is what it is. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.
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