My granddaughter[11] lives in Turkey.Her mum is Turkish and we all get on extremely well when we are together.My d-i-l speaks near perfect English and of course my son is English.When dgd was small she was virtually bilingual but as time has gone on and she spends more time playing with friends she seems reluctant[not,I think, unable to use her English.When they came here in Feb she was virtually monosyllabic with adults and older children but was overheard speaking English to her 2 yr old cousin.
I am finding it increasingly difficult to communicate with her.I have had Turkish lessons and can 'get by' but cant manage a proper conversation.This little girl is my only 'blood' granddughter[I have 3 lovely steps]and I would love to share more with her.
When she was a baby I went over 3 times a year but can now only manage once for a week and they come here for a week.
I send her parcels aand ring regularly but all she says is 'yes' 'no' 'thank you' 'I love you Grandma' and 'I miss you' but she doesnt tell me anything.If I say,'Do you like school?' she says,'I like'.If I say would you like me to send you a new top she says 'I would like'.We have Skype but she just smiles at me.
Help if you can please
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