I have two step children who I have known since they were 6 and 7 years old, I love them both as if they were my own children, both of them have lived with DH and I at some point in their lives, they even send me mothers day cards, as the years have gone by things have got easier with DH'S ex-wife and her partner (who was once his best friend - but that is another story!)
They have three children between them, so far, and in everyone's eyes I am their nanny - the most important eyes being theirs! OK they have more nannies than some of their friends, but nannies who love you, one thing you can never have too many of! Yes it gets complicated at Christmas and birthdays etc but so what!
SNP and Greens end coalition deal
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?