If you have got a generally good husband, I'd put his feelings and your health and tiredness first.
You don't have to give up or perhaps cut down right now. Perhaps you could suggest a time to reduce looking after your grandchild in 6 months time. That way your grandchild will not feel suddenly let down and neither will his/her parents.
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Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧