We are grandparents to three beautiful children who live 3000 miles away. We are concerned about the youngest who has some problems that are not being addressed by her parents, our son and his wife. The girl has extreme and rapid mood swings and is subject to almost daily tantrums that involve laying on the floor and screaming for as much as 20 minutes at a time - unacceptable in a four year old, but this girl is 9. The parents seem to be in denial that there is a problem and frequently blame the tantrums on the older two kids. When we have tried to diplomatically suggest that maybe some counseling would be useful, son was insulted and daughter said that "they" would just want to give the girl some drugs. The DIL is a "new age" believer in magic potions and "alternate" medicine and is convinced the medical profession is only concerned with making money and selling drugs.
We are very concerned and don't know how to proceed, the problem is harming the youngest girl but also having serious effect on the two older kids, 11 & 12.
Have any of you any experience or suggestions for us in this sad situation?
Good Morning Saturday 20th April 2024