Hi, my grandson who is 15 has gone from being a lad who was a typical teen to a six foot two angry boy. I know all about teenage angst I raised his mother who was a nightmare. He didn't know his dad as he was physically abusive to her when she was pregnant. My daughter then had failed relationships and also she had our second grandson who needs a lot of attention as he has ADHD.
My older grandson has now become rude arrogant and sarcastic especially to his grandad. He was with us for lunch the weekend and openly said he didn't want to come. He doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything and constantly tells his mom he'd rather live anywhere else but with her. I was holding scissors and he snatched them from me I tried to get them back because he ignored me however he then became very angry and pushed me backwards luckily the sofa stopped me falling completely. His mom said nothing and didn't ask if I was ok. My other daughter told him to apologise and help me up but he then looked like he was going to punch her. He then stormed out and we didn't see him again my daughter then left and she apologized by text next day. I'm so worried about him the school has given him counselling but to them he seems fine. He really needs to talk all this through. My daughter says she can't do anything as there's a two year waiting list with the NHS she doesn't see a problem it just doesn't get mentioned again no apology by him nd she says he just gets over excited. My grandson is the one that needs help but I don't know what to do?
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