So my son and dil had my gorgeous granddaughter 3 months ago.
I have stage 4 cancer but treatment is working so fa me I’m on chemo for life but manage to work etc.
when she went into labour I was not allowed in the hospital (I totally respect that) and her mum was (again I get it) I waited outside the hospital for hour. She was born and for 2 days I asked to pop in just quickly for a visit,
My son said no, I could come over when they came home. I cried my eyes out to my partner (didn’t say a word to my son) and waited for them to come home.
I love her to pieces but my son is so stressing and overbearing. I put a pic in Facebook and he went mad at me, even though my DIL’s mum had and my daughter in law?
My DIL tells me that her mums cat sits on the babies lap etc, the today I offered to change the baby and my son had a go at me because my little dog came over whilst I was changing her?
They are both exhausted and I offered to sleep on their sofa to give them both a nights sleep, he refuses? But she’ll go to her mums and she’ll look after her whilst she sleeps for a bit.
My son spoke to me in such a patronizing and derogatory way. I’ve told him if he doesn’t trust me why come over to my house?
He had a great childhood and im at a loss as to why I’m singled out like this.
Any advice please!
BTW my son is a stressy person full he overly worried about the smallest thing but I’ve had it up to here with being belittled because he thinks he can.
I may only see this grandchild with my cancer issues and wanted to be there.
My DIL is 100 % not the issue it’s him
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