Well I have just sat down, and feel I deserve it. At last our home is almost back to normal. You will remember I fell and broke my hip at the beginning of November; well, at that time apart from trying to get the garden sorted, I was also using the horrible days for clearing out unwanted goods indoors and being firm with myself about what I wanted and did not want, consequently the spare bedroom was at that time awash with all sorts of everything, and the spare bedroom is the place I needed to sleep when I returned home. Of course my husband did not know what I was doing, and my daughter hardly had time to sort it out, so I quite literally slept in a jumble sale for about 3 weeks, unable to do too much, quite apart from which the other half is really quite useless and had really done nothing at all whilst I was a bit incapacitated - how someone manages to get tomato soup on the ceiling I shall never know! however, here I am at last, the spare bedroom is now tidy, I have been firm in my throwing out, and although I have been a bit slow, everything is now in some sort of order elsewhere - even the ironing is up to date! . I really do now appreciate how difficult life must be for those folk who are permanently disabled, and thankful that I have been able to recover as quickly as I have and yes the other half has helped, he just needs TELLLING.