OH now on end-of-life care.

I'm so sorry, Luckygirl; my thoughts are with you x

So sorry Luckygirl, I have nothing to say that could possibly help, other than you are both in my thoughts.
Sending you sincere good wishes and hoping you and your DH find some peace, soon.
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Oh Luckygirl,it really is a torment for you.Sending you love,thoughts and prayers.x?

Oh luckygirl, so heartbreaking for you and your family, you have really done your very best for your dear husband, try and take care of you.

So sorry. How awful for you.

My dear, dear friend was in a similar situation....her husband of 59 years, has just passed away from Metastatic kidney cancer. She loved him dearly, but dreaded visiting him in the hospital. He had no quality of life...couldn't even speak to her. Like you, she justed wanted it all to be over, for his sake, moe than hers.
Sending you

Sorry to hear this. You must be so torn. ???

I'm so sorry ,we went through this with my mother and its hard .I hope you can get some rest when he sleeps as it was the only thing that kept me going .My mum didn't linger for long and difficult as it was it was a releif for us and a release for her when the end came .Take care of yourself

Very sad news, I send you also sincere good wishes.

I am so sorry Luckygirl. You have both really been through it. I just hope they keep him comfortable and peaceful now for both your sakes.

I have been there too. My thoughts are with you ?

Oh Lucky What a truly awful and sad time for you both. My thoughts are with you as I hope, as time goes on, you find the right decision to find you both at peace with loving thoughts and understanding what the next step should be.

Sending love and Hugs for you?

So sorry to hear Luckygirl we recently went through this with my mum in law. Thinking of you

Luckygirl. My thoughts are with you and all your family

I'm sorry to hear this lucky. You have always done your very best for your dh and you are doing the right thing now. It must be hard for you. I know you and your daughters will be supporting each other now. Take care.

Lucky girl so sorry for you that you are having to face this but I hope you and your husband can find some peace together

So sorry for you and your DH. He and you have been through so much and sadly this looks like the end for him. EOL drugs mean he will pass peacefully and with no pain. It is possibly the kindest thing that you can do for him now. I am sure everyone who has followed your posts will be thinking of you both at this difficult time. Big virtual hugs and I hope it doesnt last too long, you have both suffered enough.

Such a hard time for you, lucky. If you are doing what he wants, it's all you can do. I hope that his distress can be minimised. All good wishes xx

Been there so know how you feel. I hope your dear husband is spared more pain. Do feel free to discuss with the doctor your husband’s expressed wishes, and yours. It can influence decisions on medication. May you both find peace.
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I am so sorry Luckygirl a dreadful time for you

So Sorry

Oh Luckygirl I am so desperately sorry for you, to be dealing with this after such a long and drawn out struggle to get the best care for your OH. But you can at least take comfort from the fact that you did succeed in that struggle. You found him a place in a home where he has been content, somewhere he was happy to move to.

My thoughts are with you both as you face this next trial.

Luckgirl so dreadfully sorry for and your husband. What an absolutely heartbreaking situation for you to be in. I have no answer really. Maybe be guided by the doctor if you feel it is intolerable for your husband. Sending love and the warmest of wishes to you.