Know this is a medical problem really but any help or advice would be so much appreciated. After intimacy with my husband I am having cystitis type problems again and again. I go to the Drs. and take a water sample and always showing the same being no infection. Then sample sent to hospital for further testing and again no infection. I am having stinging, urgent need for a loo, uncomfortable feelings down below and generally it's miserable. We both have a daily shower, I pass water after sex and wash with cold bottled water. Always wipe from back to front. It isn't as if we are doing this constantly and not rough in any way but and still have this problem. The Dr. gave me antibiotics just in case and advised use of a vaginal lubricant and said HRT would be the answer but as had breast cancer out of the question. This has now gone on since March and my life is around the loo, hard when you go out and mix socially. It's so miserable and really getting me down and of course we are on a sex ban now which isn't good for a marriage. Any help or info or advice please. Maybe I need to go back again to the Drs and ask for further tests. Thanks.
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