We had a puppy and the awful dog breeder engineered that she would take it back. Long story, but some of was a scam.
That was three months ago and at night I sometimes think of the puppy any my skin literally burns and goes red. I know this is stress. If I have a bad night ( like last night) my muscles all hurt today and again I know it is grief.
When I am out and about and talk to people I forget the pains. I am getting frustrated because some days I do not get pain and then today has been horrible. Exercise helps.
Has anyone else endured this? Part of me has this horrible agner because the breeder was perfectly vile and part misses the puppy.
I have become obsessed with it all and just want some peace. Ihave started meditation and wonder if anyone else has tried it. I am doing an eight week course with a very reputable psuchologist from Oxford Unvesity who has compiled a book and there is a cd too.
Guess I just want a hand hold. My husband says it is grief and will pass.
Does anyone know of natural remedies. I don't want to take drugs. I did speak to Blue Cross volunteer who told me that when she lost a dog she felt as if she had been run over by a bus!
Anger management!!! Help needed.