Hi all, not been on the last few days but I have caught up this evening. I really would like to post every day but some days I’m just too exhausted even to read. My days are busy and I usually don’t get to relax until around 9 pm and then decide I must go to bed! We don’t get to watch much on TV at all. We’ve come to our caravan today. Not done so much, had a nice walk then I slept for about 2+ hours. My life just got a bit busier too as if I need that! DH has said we need to sit down and talk finances and see where we are with regards to retirement. That has specific issues for me but that’s another story. Anyway, enough about me, my problems are nothing compared to some of you. I just want you all to know that even if I don’t come on, I care, I really do and think about you all everyday.
Sweetpeasue I’m sorry you have such difficult decisions to make. In my experience with specialists, they don’t re-refer unless they need to. I think it’s a big thing for them to do - in effect, admit someone else is better. We’ve had it a few times with my son’s care and although can be upsetting, ultimately it’s been the best thing. I suppose some are just more knowledgeable in certain areas than others. Take your time to mull things over, ponder and process and I’m sure you will know what’s going to be best for you. You are so kind to everyone else, such considerate and caring posts, you deserve some support right now and I really hope you get there in the end. I hope you are not in pain this evening and you manage some rest.
Wyllow you too seem to have had a difficult time. I’m sorry for your grief. I’ve learned that grief is not just about bereavement, it’s a loss, whatever loss that might be. You will get through, it’s just different and takes time. You too are kind and caring, as are all on here, and with support, you’ll get through. Everyone on here is rooting for you.
I’m sorry for not responding personally to everyone but I hope everyone else is ok and are having the best evening possible, wishing everyone a restful night. ❤️ to all.