I am not sure where you are, Luckygirl , but there isn't much follow up where I live either.
My osteoporosis was found when i had a DEXA scan for a research project I am part of. My GP referred me to the local hospital. I waited 8 months for another DEXA scan by the hospital, carried out by 2 technicians. Three months later I received a letter confirming I had osteoporosis and I had a brief phone call with a hospital doctor who told me that I was being put on medication.
Four months later, neither I nor my GP had been given any information about the medication, so I contacted the hospital again. I then had to wait another 3 months for another brief telephone consultation. They said again I was being put on medication for the rest of my life, referred me to the Royal Osteoporosis Society site, then thank you and goodbye.
Everything dealt with, prescribed and dismissed without me ever once seeing a doctor. They did follow through this time and the next time I renewed my prescription it included Alendronic Acid.
Now I know my case was quite simple, I have never broken a bone in my life and, for other reason I am prone to falls. My osteoporosis would not have been discovered without the research scan, but I do think I should have been seen by a doctor just once.
I will not say it is ageism. My 13 year old DGS suffers from anaemia, and his parents have been told that the hospital do not intend to do anything more to find the cause, as it is not severe enough. He has been signed off by the hospital and will just stay on his current medication indefinitely.
It is just what the NHS has descended to. If your illness does not have a quick fix, they do not want to know.