Some will know I have a few problems ! Sorry this is a long post.
I am very isolated, can go a month without seeing anyone, younger granddaughter is in university and now lives 50 miles away, she comes to see me when she can, she also has a part time job.
My younger daughter lives in Lincolnshire, I live in Wales. She worries about me, tells me I am not the Mum I use to be !
She has messaged me, She and her husband live in an old farmhouse with two acres of ground , a summer house and barn . They have been given planning permission to turn the barn into living accommodation for me. It will be furnished so I don’t have to worry about removal van. Just pack my clothes and things of sentimental value, can take my two dogs, she will arrange for my bungalow to be cleared.
I promised my elder daughter I would look after her children, I adore them but accept they are now settled close to each other in a city 50 miles away.
I am so unhappy and lonely here and yes the answer is move to Lincolnshire. But, it will mean I will never see my granddaughter again and I will leave Wales. If I move I can’t come home again. I have a very close bond with my younger
granddaughter, even named her and have been a mother substitute for ten years.
If my health worsened I wouldn’t have any support and I am concerned I am causing my younger daughter worry.
I just don’t know . Thank you for reading this x
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