Hi everyone, I'm trying to find out the situation for live in carers of a parent when they die, and wonder if anyone knows or has been through the problem i now find myself in. I will explain my situation which is... I am 56 and live on my own 80 miles from my mum in a private rented flat. My mum who is 76 has been asking me to move back home with her into her 3 bed council rented house for sometime as she struggles to get up an down the stairs, she finds it hard and painful to lift things like saucepans kettles etc due to a past shoulder injury. she has various other ailments including her breathing, blood pressure etc she gets very lonely and due to some close family tragedies struggles with depression, so she wants me to move back home with her and maybe look into being her carer. what my problem is, is if give up my private rent flat here and move into mums council house with her I said she needs to make me a joint tenant for my security. she says that the council will no longer allow me to be a joint tenant with her or for family members to take over the property when she dies. this means [or does it ??] i would probably be in my mid 60's and homeless which ive said to mum im not going through that sort of turmoil at that age especially as i have my own health issues. does any body know if i am my mothers registered full time carer, do councils allow for this? do they or will they? give you some kind of assured tenancy and that they will not just say "ok mums dead ! you have 14 days to move out" and the issue has Now been compounded as my landlord has messaged me in the last couple of days saying that they are selling my flat and need me to vacate [no date or time given as yet] so as she can update the boiler cooker etc and redecorate. so i need to make some decisions pretty soon and don't know what the heck to do I'm feel really stressed an down myself now and just want to bury my head in the sand till it goes away. hopefully someone here can advise or has been through a similar problem. thanks in advance hopefully for any help or information given.
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