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Too much money???

(37 Posts)
Woody Fri 07-Oct-11 12:58:47

I know this is a strange question but does having a big savings pot worry anyone? I am an only child and about 7 years ago the last of my parents died leaving me the family home which I then sold - they would never have believed what it was worth considering what they paid for it! I now have more than enough money to last me but it worries me so much - how and where to invest it? - I try to invest in things that I think they would have approved of but it is such a nightmare having to move accounts around trying to get the best rates etc. I feel it is my duty to make the best use of it as they struggled to buy the house all those years ago. I know I could give some to charities which they were interested in and I did that at the time as well as giving some to the grandchildren. I know I should be grateful that I dont have "lack of money" worries and I am but having too much seems a problem too!!

em Sat 26-Nov-11 20:00:43

Why, I wonder? Advertising? Care to tell us GNHQ?

Gally Sat 26-Nov-11 17:38:18

Ha ha - I see Frozen has been melted ! grin

Butternut Sat 26-Nov-11 17:19:05

I think frozen is dodgy. Look at the Children and Christmas thread - there 'she' is again. hmm

greenmossgiel Sat 26-Nov-11 16:49:18

Oh Gally! - missed that about habbit/hobbit!! Silly me! grin

supernana Sat 26-Nov-11 16:34:19

hmm confused Could be right Greenmossgiel...all very suspicious!

Gally Sat 26-Nov-11 16:33:50

Yes maybe a troll from foreign parts - I was just being eversoslightly facetious about the spelling of habbit grin

greenmossgiel Sat 26-Nov-11 16:26:41

Not a 'hobbit' Gally grin! A troll, perhaps?

Gally Sat 26-Nov-11 16:23:28

Perhaps Frozen is a 'hobbit' ? confused

greenmossgiel Sat 26-Nov-11 15:41:42

hmm frozen......I'm just a wee bit unsure about you?

supernana Sat 26-Nov-11 15:38:04

Frozen are you really real?

em Sat 26-Nov-11 15:13:26

Frozen Excuse me if I am being particularly thick but may I ask why there is a link to treasure hunting on your post. Also why post the same thing twice a few days apart?

frozen Sat 26-Nov-11 12:24:24

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Oxon70 Thu 24-Nov-11 08:23:37

Yes I would enjoy having too much, too!
I had some to spare when I moved house for a while, but am now living partly off my capital.....and wondering how long it will last

frozen Wed 23-Nov-11 11:34:13

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supernana Sun 30-Oct-11 15:59:45

Barrow thanks

Barrow Sun 30-Oct-11 14:18:07

supernana I agree with you 100%. I know I am in a fortunate position but I never forget there are others so much worse off than I, through no fault of their own. I truly hope you are able to find a way to stay in your home as I know I would be heartbroken to leave the home my husband and I built together, every room has reminders of him.

Gally Sun 30-Oct-11 13:20:17


supernana Sun 30-Oct-11 12:38:56

Woody How I would enjoy being in your fortunate position. My concerns are - how do we continue to cope in our seventies, without sufficient income and no hope of been gainfully employed. We struggled to build our wee home and have loved every moment we've lived in it. Now, though, the time is fast approaching when we must take drastic action. Sleepless nights because one has too much money are surely preferable to those spent worrying over having so little short-term security. smile

Barrow Sun 30-Oct-11 11:59:58

em I wasn't suggesting that your solution for long term care would be obtaining funding from family, but they would I am sure out of love for you, help with care, especially so if you have helped out with finance for deposits or university fees.

The point I was trying to make (and probably failing) is that those of us without family don't have the reassurance of knowing there was family in the background to watch out for us.

jinglej Sat 29-Oct-11 22:15:43

Well, I think we might have to start living off of our Isas. Has anyone else tried to leave the pension pot in place until things look up? (hollow laugh)

em Sat 29-Oct-11 21:29:34

I find transferring the annual allocation into ISA's is best for me and I mentally 'ringfence' them and don't regard them as easy access. Otherwise it's 1 or 2 year fixed rate bonds. Was disappointed in the past with the performance of long-term bonds (PEPs and TESSAs) so now prefer to keep it simple. I too worry about keeping enough for possible long-term care but don't see the solution as obtaining funding from family.

jinglej Sat 29-Oct-11 11:37:07

Barrow, I think fixed rate 1 year Bonds is a good way to do it. So long as you keep enough in instant access accounts. I find Birmingham and Midshires are good. They make no difficulties about getting your money to you. Very quick and straightforward.

Barrow Sat 29-Oct-11 11:21:59

When my husband died he left me financially secure and I have a similar problem in what to do with the money. I have decided on fixed rate bonds for 1 year - that way I know the money is safe and after a year if interest rates have gone up I can look at it again.

Whilst giving money away to family and charities is all very worthy those of us without family (I don't have children) also have to think about our care when we get older and more infirm. The time may come when I will be unable to live alone and I will need sufficient funds to finance a move into a residential/nursing home. Those of you with children could confidently make gifts to them and grandchildren, safe in the knowledge that if and when the time comes when you need help you have the safety net of family.

gangy5 Sat 08-Oct-11 17:10:07

jackyann one of your ideas - making provision for a family holiday where you can all gather together has been something that we have done 3 times. I can't quantify the pleasure we have derived from this - all the holidays have been memorable and well worth the cash!!

jackyann Sat 08-Oct-11 14:03:23

Well, if you don't want to come into a racehorse syndicate with me.....
I agree about giving it to family. Obviously we don't know what will happen in the future, but our grandchildren are likely to need money for education.
So seriously, I would find out about setting up a trust fund for them, with you in control.
I would certainly keep a family "rainy day" pot. When I was a HV, one of my lovely mums suddenly had a serious worry in her 4th pregnancy (having carried & delivered 3 with no worries). Her in-laws paid for a cleaner & nanny, which made all the difference.
You don't say what the financial situation of your children or wider family is. I have known well-off relatives who fund an annual get-together eg: rent a villa abroad for 3 weeks and invite all the family, or a hotel for a weekend. Having the money to enable things like this, is I feel, really lovely (I'm saving!)
Some time ago, dh & I decided to stop giving money regularly to charities (we still of course, sponsor people we know, attend fund-raisers etc.) and instead, we make our purchases & investments as ethical as we can. I appreciate your idea about custodianship of this money, but considering the social benefit of investment can be valuable.