The only advice I would offer is give what help you can but do wait to be asked or ask lightly if they would like a b or c and don’t be upset if your offer isn’t needed and don’t have high expectations so many disappointments on here (I wasn’t asked to run the baby shower I wasn’t allowed to see the baby born, I m not allowed round six times a week etc etc )
You sound as if you have a great relationship with your future daughter in law and her mum so long may it continue
I don’t know if you watch Holby ( or is it casualty) but there is an similar scenario with an autistic chap and girlfriend (also autistic) they’re expecting a baby and the consultant aunt of the chappy got so overjoyed and worried that she started taking over thinking they couldn’t manage and had to take a big step back or lose them
Good luck
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic
What is a reasonable minimum spend for an online grocery delivery??