This is not personal- a genuine question in my mind. There is so much information out there that indicate that what you called 'Project Fear' is indeed 'Reality'.
I have spent most of the day outside, picking leaves, running with the dog, cutting and tidying- and my thoughts were not on Brexit, I can assure you. I truly cannot fathom how some of you are still in such massive denial.
Even, even if - we get some sort of Deal- it will never be as good as the one we had- partners, at the top table- and with some amazing exceptions and advantages. The Deal Mrs May cut was not good, but the very best possible. Johnson's Deal was much worse, in many ways. In the meantime, Johnson has alienated all in the EU by his sheer waste of time, reneging and everything agreed, and even breaking an international treaty. They all know he is waiting for the US elections- and they do not trust him one little bit, not his word either- meaning that the UK has lost its amazing reputation. If we do get a Deal, last minute, it will be the poorest possible. And if Trump does not win (and I pray, in my own way, that he ddoes NOT) we will not get a Deal with the USA, and in the meantime seen as weak and totally not trustworthy by the EU.
We could end up with very very little.
But yes, wait patiently and watch - until too late. Great way to proceed.