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Is this country going to the dogs?

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Dinahmo Sat 11-Mar-23 19:10:21

A report in the Guardian just now about a 68 year old man, walking with his dog had an unknown liquid squirted into his eyes. Both have been treated for burns. The man who squirted jumped into a car and was driven away.

Every time I look at a paper or see the news attacks on people are being reported. The number seems to be increasing. I'm not including murders and rapes in this although they are increasing too.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 11-Mar-23 19:19:20

Depends where you live I guess. Sad, but it’s nothing new. I don’t see it as evidence that the country is going to the dogs but I expect some of a different political persuasion might find it useful for their cause. Of course illegal immigrants might have been responsible!

You don’t live in the UK though, do you?

Whitewavemark2 Sat 11-Mar-23 19:21:32

Of course illegal immigrants might have been responsible!

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Oreo Sat 11-Mar-23 20:32:05

Are you talking about what goes on in France OP? I know there’s loads of social probs there and a lot of poverty but I guess it’s no worse on the whole than many European countries.It doesn’t mean it’s going to the dogs.
Gangs, knife crime, drugs and violence have gone on for a very long time.

Wyllow3 Sat 11-Mar-23 20:37:47

On rapes - its reporting on rapes that are increasing, not incidence. Women have gained the courage to speak up.

PerkyPiggy Sat 11-Mar-23 20:39:19

I don't believe there has ever been a golden age in our history. In the past many injustices and wrongs were hidden - accepted domestic violence, sexual abuse etc. So no, I don't think we are going to the dogs. We just exchange one set of problems for another and always will.

Dinahmo Sat 11-Mar-23 21:09:31

I do live in France but I'm talking about the UK, or perhaps England. The divisions that are apparent in some of the other threads seem to be getting worse and it saddens me.

I know that reporting of sexual violence has increased and that many such crimes were hidden in the past. It's the nature of this particular crime. Perhaps the perpetrators had a grudge against the victim - I don't know. It took place in Wendover in Bucks. Are there immigrants there? It doesn't look like a poor area either.

M0nica Sat 11-Mar-23 21:12:04

Every generation thinks the country is going to the dogs compared to when they were young.

Overall I think things gradually improve. In our youth, any assault had to be brutal to attract police attention. See how many books would casually mention someone (adult) being hit or kicked by someone, it was taken as normal. it wouldn't be now, bullying was treated as par for the course and chldren and women could be beaten with impunity.

Allsorts Sat 11-Mar-23 21:37:53

I don’t respect either off the two main political parties, for the first time I couldn't vote for either, I would love Starmer to have an original idea, to be decisive but but no chance as all he does is rubbish the opposition, he comes up with nothing, we need a change but who can we have? There is more violence due mainly I think to the internet, easy access to porn just makes women objects and yet lots of women love earning a living from it. I look back at my early life as being quite carefree and free to go where I want, very independent but youngsters can’t do that now.

MawtheMerrier Sat 11-Mar-23 22:09:16

All the "normal" people going about their lives peacefully and without fuss do not make for news stories.
Nor do I believe for a nanosecond that random acts of violence are unique to this country
So no I do not agree
And I think TBH that a thread title like this is like a red rag to your average bull and unnecessarily goady.

Joseanne Sat 11-Mar-23 22:38:07

going to the dogs
I like that expression. I think we are the only country that uses it, most of the others talk about going down the valley as in water. I'm guessing our expression comes from giving decaying food, which wasn't fit for humans, to the dogs.
No, I don't think our country is rotten or putrid just because emotive crime stories are slipped into the news. I have no idea what Wendover is like, but when I read, as I do, (in Ouest-France), about rape, fire bombs or acid attacks in quiet corners of Brittany, I know that all countries have similar problems.

NotSpaghetti Sat 11-Mar-23 23:56:07

And I know someone who was raped in a "quiet corner of Brittany". It happens everywhere.

NotSpaghetti Sun 12-Mar-23 00:00:41

I always thought the expression was from betting (more than you can afford) - I've never heard the rotten food explanation.

Spice101 Sun 12-Mar-23 00:07:10

I think these incidents have always been far more common than many realise. However, now there is always a camera nearby (phone) for pseudo reporters to share with the press or social media.

paddyann54 Sun 12-Mar-23 00:14:47

Its not "going to the dogs" it well and truly went to the dogs over the past decade or more .When you have liars ,thieves and crooks running the country ,not to mention bigots andMP's who seem to be on a brain share what chance is there for England ?
Sadly they seem determined to drag the rest of the DISunited kingdom down with them .

MaizieD Sun 12-Mar-23 01:03:04

paddyann54

Its not "going to the dogs" it well and truly went to the dogs over the past decade or more .When you have liars ,thieves and crooks running the country ,not to mention bigots andMP's who seem to be on a brain share what chance is there for England ?
Sadly they seem determined to drag the rest of the DISunited kingdom down with them .

There are times when I think a 'like' button would be handy.

Joseanne Sun 12-Mar-23 08:23:26

In Wendover, a group of talented young musicians has organised a classical concert in order to raise money for Ukrainians suffering as their cities are bombed, and their homes are destroyed.
Personally I'd rather read about this group of kind, community minded, young musicians in Wendover giving up a Sunday afternoon to play Chopin and Bach for free. But of course that doesn't make the national news.
I think these young people are living proof that, where it counts, our country is not "going to the dogs". The next generations of Wendover and other towns in the country will take us forward and never lose their compassion for others.

fancythat Sun 12-Mar-23 08:36:36

Biblical morals were given for a reason. Peace for people in society, being one of them.

MaizieD Sun 12-Mar-23 09:37:08

fancythat

Biblical morals were given for a reason. Peace for people in society, being one of them.

Which bit of the bible are you referring to?

There was a great deal of smiting and fighting going on in the Old Testament. Was that with divine approval?

GrannyGravy13 Sun 12-Mar-23 10:05:51

Bad news has always traveled quicker and further than good news.

Since the rise in social media, camera phones and the overwhelming desire to share everything you see or do it stands to reason that bad news stories are travelling further and quicker.

Added to the above the grass is always greener on the other side along with things were so much better when we were younger along with any similar tale and you get headers like the OP…

MaizieD Sun 12-Mar-23 11:36:27

Added to the above the grass is always greener on the other side along with things were so much better when we were younger along with any similar tale and you get headers like the OP…

I have to say, as Essex born and bred, I don't recall no-go areas being reported in any of the coastal resorts when I lived there...

Norah Sun 12-Mar-23 11:41:31

No, not "going to the dogs" - just problems are more visible.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 12-Mar-23 11:46:39

MaizieD

^Added to the above the grass is always greener on the other side along with things were so much better when we were younger along with any similar tale and you get headers like the OP…^

I have to say, as Essex born and bred, I don't recall no-go areas being reported in any of the coastal resorts when I lived there...

Google Jaywick MazieD it is allegedly one of if not the most poorest area in the U.K. drove through it last summer (I was lost as was my SatNav) not an experience I wish to repeat.

The main problem with Southend Sea Front (the middle area with Adventure Island, amusement arcades and The Pier) are the trains full of day trippers often rival inner city gangs who bring their drugs and violence with them added to which easy access to London and onwards it’s ripe for the taking between County Lines Gangs.

The locals tend to use the beaches at either end and avoid the masses, the local paper is an eye opener.

micmc47 Sun 12-Mar-23 11:50:29

Bad news sells newspapers and grabs media attention. We very seldom get heart-warming headlines. Also, retrospective, rose-coloured spectacles focused on the supposed "good old days" seem to be rather selective in terms of what they see. Yes, there's a lot wrong in society today, but you could argue that there always has been. I still believe that the vast majority of the population are good, well-intentioned souls, who just want to get on with living a harmonious life, and with positively responding to the everyday challenges which we all face. "Making a difference" starts with each and every one of us.

Urmstongran Sun 12-Mar-23 11:51:55

I bet Romans in their togas sat about and bemoaned the state of affairs even back then.
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