Following on from a discussion on The Wright Stuff this morning, what do all you Gransnetters think about this? I think that when they are working and earning a wage, it`s perfectly acceptable to expect them to contribute towards household expenses, they do live there after all. When my kids left school, they all went into YTS (Youth training scheme) jobs, for which they were paid £30 a week, this was in the 80s. Out of that, they paid me £10 lodge, and they managed perfectly well on what they had left, especially as they`d only had a small amount of "spence" before that. But my daughter won`t ask her 19 year old daughter for anything towards her keep because she`s in college and only getting £70-80 a week in a part time job, says she can`t afford to pay her anything. But all she does with it is buy snacks, cigarettes and go clubbing, her mum bought her a car which she was supposed to pay her back in installments but didn`t, she paid her road tax and insurance, and even pays her mobile phone bills sometimes, although she can`t really afford to. We don`t think that this is helping her to understand the value of money, but we keep getting shouted down, so now we`ve shut up. Sorry if this post is a bit on the long side.
Estranged Son and Future Granddaughter
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic