NellieSmol Your mum must have been one wonderful lady.
In my lifetime I've kept several balls in the air. We women can do that sort of thing [with panache]. I've worked as a civil servant, proof reader, accounts clerk, managed a retail outlet x2, a pharmacy assistant, nanny/hosekeeper, live-in general assistant in a hotel, cashier in a night club, cleaning lady for several families, moved furniture/tended gardens/, sold my own artwork from a small gallery, reproduced my artwork into greeting cards and sold to local shops. From time to time, I still do piles of ironing for a good friend. I've never been work-shy. A thing called old age is slowing me down and preventing me from being the busy person of yesteryear. Just saying...