If only we knew how long we were going to live! As it is, it's a balancing act, because we need money to maintain the house/car etc and pay the bills, alongside having that meal or the holiday.I don't think we should worry about leaving large sums of money for our DC though, if we have a property, then they can share the proceeds of that.If it has to be sold to meet our nursing home fees then so be it.
New house and a sloping garden
How do you acknowledge Easter.