When DD married her Australian fiancé in Oz, her future in-laws insisted on providing stuff on the guests tables although DD didn’t want them and her fiancé didn’t want to upset his mum. So sugared almonds inside champagne flutes appeared. Most people left them behind, I think they thought they were extra glasses. I took a few home as souvenirs for relatives who couldn’t attend, virtually everyone from our family. 20 years on, DD would not have stood for this interference from in-laws. Also as so many GNers write about not wanting extra clutter etc. why bother with favours?