Daisy boots, your hair looks just fine , are you going to keep it short, or have it abit longer and layered? Maw you look very stylish, and have a great book collection I notice!
I started seeing grey in mine at age eighteen, and dyed it for years. Stopped dying it about five or six years ago, kept it cropped short ala Judy dench. It took me a long time to come to terms with it, and with other people's so called advice not to 'let myself go' and keep dying it.
These days having found the right colours to wear, with a little bit of tinted moisturiser, blusher and mascara so I don't look washed out, I find I am quite proud and happy to have a full head of very white hair, I am even trying to grow it to shoulder length.
My sixteen year old gd said last night that she would like hers dyed my colour, so ladies, go grey with pride!