Hello everyone, I'm new to this place and to forums so apologies if I do something wrong or have bad etiquette. I'm a new granny and worried about my grandson's welfare and don't know what to do for the best. My daughter cares for him well in general but his dad is very impatient and selfish. He seems to not have any sense. He thinks the baby hates him, has left him in the bath on his own and gone to another room (once) and other small things that worry me and are red flags to me but they don't seem to worry my daughter?.
I tend to be an over worrier but my instinct says things are wrong here. My daughter has had words with him about some of these things and seems to think they won't happen again or dismisses me as a worrywort.
I see the baby once a week when I visit their house as I live quite far away from them. The baby recently had a bruise along side his spine which I instantly raised concerns about but my daughter chose to ignore my advice to see the doctor just to check it up. The baby isn't old enough to be moving yet so this is a weird thing to be seeing on him. I'm not saying he's being hurt but it is a worry in the back of my mind and I know bruises can happen for other reasons, but this on top of the baby daddy behaviour and attitude since he was born make me feel very anxious and my daughter not going to the doctor made me angry and we have had a bit of a falling out, not a major falling out but I don't know what to do, should I raise it as a concern or am I being over the top?
Anger management!!! Help needed.