o.k I can only tell you my experience, like you moved more than once..
when we were in our early 50`s, dh wanted to move from Oxfordshire area, to North Yorkshire.. I could get a job there as I was main wage earner... so we did.. left two grown up sons here..
we were there for 10 years plus, made lots of friends and work colleagues,
then first gs born, and I felt the need to be nearer to them, weekend visits weren`t possible due to distance.
so I retired , just gone 60, earlier than I had planned, house prices ,! duh! so we had to downsize a fair bit.
had 20 years lovely retirement, but dh health had deteriorated and I concentrated on him.. no work colleagues, no friends, (well just one )
then he died, last November,, and so hard to make friends now,,, no one wants to know, (age ??) no work colleagues, too far away, and friends,, long way away..
so I am lonely,,
gks. lovely,, not huggy types, but ... well.. I do get to see them and of course they are grown up, or growing up...
would I do it again? I think so, but I am having to live with my friends and work colleagues (who would have been good company) too far away..
I go to local church, have done for 3 years now, but whilst chat, don`t want to be friends,,, again, I think the age has something to do with it..
I just have to live with being lonely I guess. or get confidence to go and have coffee`s on my own for example...