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lincolnimp Wed 03-Mar-21 04:13:54

The audacity.
This evening I was in a Zoom group meeting, in the dining room at the front of the house, with the light on and the door shut
DH, who is extremely hard of hearing, was in the extension room beyond the kitchen, with the tv subtitles on and sorting yet another removsl box.
I heard noises upstairs, and presumed that he had gone up to do some much needed sorting up thrte..

Oh no, some 'opportunistic delughtful'person/s had come down our drive, and taken advantage of the fact thst I had inadvertently failed to lock the front door before setling down for the evening.
Thry had gained entry via our outer porch door, and our front door.
Removed money and cards from my bag which was in the sitting room and ransacked cupboards and drawers upstairs.
They not only took all our jewellery,, much with resl sentimental value, but also the contents of my kerpsake box which has virtually monetary value at all
Pillow case taken from our bed, presumably to carry away their swag.
Still discovering missing items

The police wre excellent.
Bank cards stopped.
Phone call to insurers first thing tomortow morning

M0nica Mon 08-Mar-21 08:11:05

paddyanne how dreadful and it was clearly planned, a live hedge will not burn without accelerant. To have it happen twice can only make matters worse.

I do hope the police are going to do something more about the culprit than just send him home to his parents.

Nothing anyone says can allay how you must now feel, but I am not the first, and will surely not be the last to offer you sympathy and love at this time flowers

V3ra Mon 08-Mar-21 07:47:27

paddyanne that must have been so frightening, especially as you've suffered an arson attack previously.
We had a bad house fire four years ago and I can barely even have a birthday candle in the house now. Fire is so scary.
I'm glad you're physically both ok after this incident.

paddyanne Sun 07-Mar-21 22:12:43

I called 999 last night when I heard someone outside and saw a torchlight being shone around mine and my neighbors back garden. I was still on the phone giving details when my 15 foot hedge started to go up in flames so I asked for firebrigade too. Within 10 minutes there were 4 uniformed police and a fire engine at my front door.My OH had himself taken a torch and gone out to the grassy area behind the house while our next door neighbour used his hose on the fire,ours had been cut presumably by the intruder.
There is a young man with a history of fireraising locally and I know it was he I saw walking awy from my hedge with his large dog ,so after taking statements from us the police left to visit him andtwo CID officerscame to check the scene of the fire.
they called me at 4 am to let us know they had arrested him and charged him BUT had let him go on conditions he remained supervised by his parents .
Its been a difficult day ,we didn't sleep at all and it brought back horrible memories of an arson attack on our business 35 years ago .We've lived in this house over 3 decades with no issues ,my doors are always unlocked but this has left me shaken .My sympathy to all of you having these problems

Lizzytut Sun 07-Mar-21 21:27:55

This happened to us we were in bed we didn't hear any noise at all the burglar walked onto our bedroom my oh jumped out of bed and gave chase but couldn't keep up to him. We'd had a particular busy day and I thought my oh had locked the door and he thought i had. All my bank cards had been stolen along with my handbag two mobiles and a camera

Forestflame Fri 05-Mar-21 17:58:23

So glad to hear your insurance company are being sensible

lincolnimp Fri 05-Mar-21 12:00:40

For information.
No problem at all with our insurance even though the door was unlocked.
It was only early evening and they are happy with this.
Just have to pay the usual £200 excess

janipans Thu 04-Mar-21 23:30:56

I feel for you. We returned from a weekend away to find we had been burgled - cash, heirlooms (pillowcase!) etc. Because keys for our 2nd car had been taken yet car was still there, police immobilised that car, then went to get some warmer clothing to do a stake out! Whilst they were away (10 minutes!), we heard voices outside and the burglars had jumped into the car we'd just come back in (with our suitcases and goods we'd bought whilst away) and driven off! We hadn''t realised that they had also taken the spare keys for that car! How brazen!
Whilst they didn't recover our car or property, they did catch the young man who confessed to it and found he was into drugs and had over 300 previous convictions for burglary.
We participated in a new regime where we met the lad (in the company of police) and explained how much his actions had hurt us. He apologised and we were asked if we wanted him to undertake some voluntary work to show his goodwill. We asked for a Christmas card (to be sent via the police worker) telling us how he was getting on. Amazingly - he complied and after 3 years we stopped it. It was hard to do to but we hope that our input helped him to "go straight" and prevent another family being burgled, and that some good came from our upsetting situation.
Incidentally - the lad said he'd flung stuff he didn't want over a fence onto British Rail land (which even the Police could not enter without express permission. They found some items of jewellery, just not ours!

M0nica Thu 04-Mar-21 22:47:44

I can never see the point of security lights, all they do is light everything up so any one on the prowl can see exactly where everything outside is and avoid tripping over the dustbins etc.

We have had three break ins and one attempted break-in. The attempt was when the potential malfactors failed to see the security alarm while they were stumbling round the back of our house in the pitch black, knocking over plant pots as they went. Had we been in we would have heard them. As it was, they got the fright of their lives when they broke a small window and the alarm went off. They quickly scarpered empty handed.

CazB Thu 04-Mar-21 22:31:04

We have been burgled several times. The worst was when they entered our bedroom via a flat roof, and took most of my jewellery. The police were great, and actually found the most valuable piece, a ring, on the grass where it had been dropped. Another time, youths high on drugs, drove straight through the front door but only managed to take an old TV. It took ages to get a new front door. I'm so sorry this has happened to you, it's very frightening and awful when you loose items of sentimental value too. Thinking of you.

Floradora9 Thu 04-Mar-21 21:34:47

If you decide to install antitheft devices we had some good advice. Get lights that stay on all night as the bad lads know how to dodge the ones that are motion sensitive. In our last house they installed a panic button above our bed and one at the front door . If you were worried about someone on the doorstep one step back and you could activate it . We never leave home without putting our alarm on even though we are now in a low risk area.

Harmonypuss Thu 04-Mar-21 21:22:20

I haven't read the whole thread yet but I do think you're going to have trouble with your insurance company because as you said right from the off on this thread .... you didn't lock the doors .... which basically invalidates your insurance!

Shizam Thu 04-Mar-21 21:00:42

That is shocking and upsetting for you. Hope you are feeling ok. Seems to be a spike in this at the moment. Just horrible.

Tess1 Thu 04-Mar-21 20:41:38

So sorry , how awful for you both.

songstress60 Thu 04-Mar-21 18:17:18

I was burgled at Christmas 2019 and they took my cards and hacked into them, and the police were awful. They were callous and indifferent.

nannafizz Thu 04-Mar-21 17:42:22

I can’t imagine how frightening that must have been . I so hope you get your sentimental items back Lincolnimp. ?

Sparkling Thu 04-Mar-21 16:34:38

How frightening for you. There’s a lot of low life out there who don’t want to work for money or things.

Dianehillbilly1957 Thu 04-Mar-21 16:26:29

Dirty rotten scumbags!! Poor you.

suelld Thu 04-Mar-21 16:19:02

I'm so sorry to hear that - I too was burgled - but this was a long time ago - the real problem apart from the loss of irreplaceable and personal items is the sense of being violated!.
I lived in a second floor flat alone and was burgled when I was out - but a few days later I was inside and heard someone mounting the outside Fire escape stairs and stop outside my window (one of the windows had access to the flat but was curtained) I cautiously peered out under the curtain and could see someone standing there pressed against the side of the stairs trying not to be seen. This was before mobile phones and I had no mains phone - so I left the flat and went to a nearby phone box to call the police - he was gone when we returned and hadn't broken in again but it was very frightening and I couldn't stay there after that! Luckily I was engaged and I moved to live with my fiancee, but I've never forgotten that awful sinking feeling. I hope they catch the perpetrator - but usually in a burglary they sadly rarely do!

Jaye53 Thu 04-Mar-21 14:20:15

I hope your insurer pays out as not a forced break in was it.

sharon103 Thu 04-Mar-21 14:10:44

Scum of the earth aren't they!
How dreadful for you. You must be really shaken up.
Sending a big hug xxx

Bluebel Thu 04-Mar-21 14:01:33

Rotten scumbags I just don't know how they sleep at night?. Soundly I bet!!.I'm so sorry this awful thing has happened.Sending you hugs&hope you get justice .????

NannyBuzz Thu 04-Mar-21 13:51:10

This happened to my daughter-in-law in Ipswich. Keys to car were take, and car was stollen. What upset me the most was that my little granddaughter was asleep upstairs and I was abroad at the time.

Corkie91 Thu 04-Mar-21 13:49:53

Seems a common event these days. Both our elderly neighbours in their late 80s have been robbed in the last year while they were sitting in arm chair at home. Its scary and I cannot belive people can be so brazen

Craftycat Thu 04-Mar-21 13:39:16

We have had a couple of thefts of catalytic converters being removed from cars in our quiet cul de sac. Apparently they resell on for £1000.Poluce have been great but they can't be on the road all night. Most houses have more yhan one car so they are parked on drive or road. We've installed CCTV outside now.

ALANaV Thu 04-Mar-21 13:02:49

How awful and frightening ....being afraid to live alone in the UK (having just returned) I bought a retirement flat with a secure entry system. I don't like living in it, as obviously no garden, cant have a pet, etc etc and the cost and rules and regulations BUT that is one reason I bought it .....I lived on my own after my husband died but was constantly on the listen for 'noises off; ....even though I lived in the middle of a field in France (not literally !) and had no immediate neighbours and the area was very very quiet except for the occasional moo from the field beyond .....I would have loved to have bought a little bungalow, and still would, but would be too frightened to sleep .......I hope you will be ok ...put a camera on your front door, under the eaves, and on the bell ....and a video camera on the side of the house, back garden, etc....might not deter them, but if Police have time they can then look at footage ......make sure if you do that the camera is guarded with a metal frame as they will try to dismantle, damage etc that as well .......stay safe !