I am a new member and thank you, particularly Phoenix, for your compassion and support for those coping with the sudden death of a grandchild - I have printed out your words, Phoenix, and put them with my grandson's photo.
He died, on Father's Day, just over 3 years ago, from a ruptured spleen caused by glandular fever. His unexpected death and the suddenness of it was a great shock to us all - his family, his many friends and his whole community - his cricket club has held a Memorial match to honour him each year since. He is deeply loved and missed by so many.
He was a healthy 19 year old and just slightly unwell at the time - he had no knowledge, and neither did his family, nor was he warned by his doctor, that glandular fever, at that stage not confirmed, was a potentially life threatening illness. He had blood tests done, started feeling unwell soon after, then became light-headed and sick and died several hours later, with the ambos helpless to save him.
Seemingly he had his whole life ahead of him and then he was gone. His sudden death has shocked me to my core and the loss of what might have been hurts every day.
Oh to find a meaning in, or reason for, such loss and sadness!
I cannot believe it was my grandson's wish or God's will.
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart.